By MaryAnn Diorio,
PhD, MFA
Years
ago, when I first began writing professionally, I stumbled on a simple secret
that literally changed the course of my writing career. The secret was this: A
writer will never achieve success beyond the level of his or her self-image.
Self-image—or
the way you see yourself--is, perhaps, the single most important factor in a
writer’s quest for success. Self-image
has everything to do with how we think. And how we think has everything to do
with writing success.
I’d
like to suggest seven keys to help you program your writer self-image for success,
not failure:
Key #1—When
negative thoughts about your writing ability assail you, refuse to entertain
them.
When
I was a fledgling writer, my internal conversation went something like this:
NEGATIVE
VOICE:
“Who do you think you are calling yourself a writer? Everything you’ve written so far has been rejected. Why don’t you give up before you make a fool of yourself? After all, it takes special talent to be a writer, and, unfortunately, you don’t have any.”
“Who do you think you are calling yourself a writer? Everything you’ve written so far has been rejected. Why don’t you give up before you make a fool of yourself? After all, it takes special talent to be a writer, and, unfortunately, you don’t have any.”
ME:
“Yes, I guess you’re right. If I really had talent, editors would be clamoring for my work. After all, rejection slips don’t lie. I’m just not cut out to be a writer. I may as well quit and do something else.”
“Yes, I guess you’re right. If I really had talent, editors would be clamoring for my work. After all, rejection slips don’t lie. I’m just not cut out to be a writer. I may as well quit and do something else.”
That
negative voice sounded very convincing, especially after I had just received
yet another rejection slip. But when I realized I didn’t have to listen to that
negative voice, I began taking the offensive against it by applying key number
two.
Key #2—Replace all
negative thoughts with positive ones. Nature abhors a vacuum. As you sweep negative
thoughts out of your mind, you must replace them with positive ones or the
negative thoughts will return with even greater force.
So,
when the negative voice challenged me, I began talking back to it. I would say,
“I am a writer! Not only am I writer, but I am also a successful writer.”
An
amazing thing happened: the negative voice backed off.
Key #3—You will
eventually believe what you repeatedly hear.
The
Bible tells us that faith comes by
hearing (Romans 10: 17). Whatever we hear often enough, we will eventually believe. So, make sure you are hearing the right
things about your writing.
Key # 4—Your mind
is the original computer. What you program into your mind is what will show up
in your life. Program your mind for
success.
Key #5—You create
your writing future with your tongue. Your tongue is the programmer of your
mind. The words you speak set the course of your writing life. So, watch your
mouth!
Key #6—Visualize
yourself as a successful writer. Define what writing success looks like to
you. Then picture yourself achieving that success.
Key #7—Affirmation
without action is dead. You can speak all the positive things you want about
your writing, but if you don’t back up your words with action, nothing will
happen.
So,
there you have it! Seven keys to
achieving a self-image that will result in writing success.
Now,
use your keys!
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Dr.MaryAnn Diorio is a widely published, award-winning author of fiction,
non-fiction, and children’s books. Her
latest novel, A Sicilian Farewell, is
Book 2 in The Italian Chronicles
trilogy. MaryAnn is also a Certified Life & Writing Coach who works with
writers to help them achieve their writing dreams. You may reach her at drmaryann@maryanndiorio.com or at
www.maryanndiorio.com. This article
is based on Dr. MaryAnn’s popular booklet, Self-Image
and the Writer available on Amazon.
