By Diane Bator
Excuses, excuses...
I've been a writer since
I was a kid. By kid, I mean big enough to hold a crayon and make squiggles that
passed for...well, nothing to most eyes, but fabulous words to me. Over the
years, I've carved out my own writing time between work, family, and other
obligations. While I could use life as an excuse not to write, I chose to make
writing a priority. I write while waiting for appointments, for kids at karate
and soccer, for dinner to cook, and at writing group meetings. There are no
excuses when ten other writers are waiting for you to read your latest fifteen
minute blurb based on prompts that are supposed to motivate, yet sometimes do
intimidate. .
Yes, it's hard to write
a book. Yes, it's hard to get an agent or a publisher to read your work. Yes,
it can be even harder to get your family on board while you slave over a hot
keyboard. But you will never get the story that's buried in your head into a
book you can hold in your hands if you make excuses and don't plant your butt
in a chair to write.
"But I don't have
an office. Can't write without an office." -- for the record, I write on
my couch, at my kitchen table, in coffee shops, on my back deck. No office.
"But I had a
great idea, but Stephen King stole it." -- There are a zillion books out
there about zombies and vampires. Many books share a concept; only one book
will contain your words, your descriptions, and your passion.
"But I hate using
computers, they hate me." (Yes, I have heard this one!) -- These days, the
Internet is the best way to contact and keep in touch with agents, publishers,
writing groups, and so on. Learning new things is part of keeping young and
networking. The Internet is also a great source of research material.
"But my family
thinks I'm crazy." -- I think I'm crazy, but that's never
stopped me. Book number three has just been published and I have many more on
the way! It's all about following your passion.
"I have a great
book, movie script, and a related theme park, but have so far received
rejection after rejection." -- Every great writer has received at least
one rejection. If you keep receiving rejections and can't figure out why,
recruit people you know will give you an honest critique. Mom doesn't count
unless she's a professional editor, sorry. Many times the biggest mistake new
writers make is not having someone help with a good edit, you don' want to give
publishers/editors migraines.
Stop making excuses.
Everyone can find ten or fifteen minutes in their day to put words to paper and
every book is created exactly the same way: one word at a time.
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Diane Bator
has been a writer since she was able to hold a pencil and tell a story. An avid
hiker, Reiki Master, and martial artist, she loves to make a mess in the
kitchen and putters in the garden at will. Joining the Headwaters Writers'
Group in 2007 was the catalyst for her unearthing several old writing projects.
Her first murder mystery, Murder on Manitou, was published after
winning a writing contest in 2010. Since obtaining her agent, Dawn Dowdle, she
has gone on to write the Wild Blue Mysteries series, published
by Books We Love, and has another mystery series on the way. She lives in
Southern Ontario, Canada with her husband, three kids, and a cat who thinks
he's a Husky.
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