By C.L. Roth
As the mother and
caregiver for a disabled adult son, I have some unique difficulties in
maintaining a writing schedule. No matter what my goals are, I always have to
consider his goals too.
My son has cerebral
palsy, he’s in a wheelchair, non-verbal, and needs help in all areas of his
life. He’s also a talented artist. He requires time for his art with the same
drive and enthusiasm I have for my writing.
In order to meet my
writing goals, I have chosen to get up early. I’m usually up and at the
computer by 5:30 in the morning. I am able to work until 9am. The rest of the
morning I use for his needs, running errands, whatever household chores need
done.
In the afternoon, my son
paints. Using this schedule, I’m able to get in about twenty hours a week for
my writing and my son will manage about ten hours for his painting. This works
fine until I have a deadline. Deadline’s change everything.
When a deadline looms
the first item I look for is the timer. I use one that I bought at the cooking
section of the grocery store. The cheapest one they sell. When I need to work
during the day, I set the timer for one hour. I work hard during that hour
editing, revising, or whatever job is needed at that particular moment.
The bell rings and I set
it for another hour only this time the hour belongs to my son. And he paints,
or does whatever he chooses to do. My time and attention is his until the timer
rings. Using a timer keeps us fair. It allows me to get my time in without
forgetting his time.
So my how-to tools are
the alarm clock that wakes me up in the morning allowing me to maintain regular
working hours. Consistency gets me farther than any other tool. And the kitchen
timer that allows me to divide my time and make sure I share my energy with the
ones around me who need it.
There isn’t any magic
when it comes to writing. You just get up, and you do it.
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C.L. Roth is a wife,
mother, grandmother, artist, and author. She lives in Illinois with her
husband, son, two dogs, and a cat. She writes Middle Grade fantasy, Young Adult
paranormal mysteries and SF, and adult cozy mysteries. Website: www.clroth.com
Wattpad: http://www.wattpad.com/user/CLRoth
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